The State of the Official After Retirement
Retirement is a truthful mirror of all the years of work. What an official finds in terms of appreciation or lack thereof after leaving his post is mostly the fruit of what he planted during his professional journey. Whoever treats people well finds kindness, whoever preserves their dignity sees his own dignity preserved, and whoever gives them appreciation receives their loyalty.
In work life, an official goes through long years exercising his powers. During those years, some officials think that what establishes their status is the position alone, while the truth is that the position only gives its holder a temporary opportunity to reveal his character and his way of dealing with others. Positions change, and seats move from one person to another, but the human impact remains firmly in memory after titles disappear and powers end.
Therefore, retirement does not only represent the end of the job, but often a moment when the real balance of the official's relationship with people appears. On the day of retirement, decision-making authority recedes and the privileges associated with the position disappear, leaving only what the person has planted with his own hands: respect, love, and appreciation. There, the official realizes that what he offered to people did not go far, but came back to him in the form of loyalty, good remembrance, and sincere gratitude.
If the official is of good nature, lenient, generous in dealing, opens his door to people, meets them with a cheerful face, listens to their needs attentively, treats his employees with justice and fairness, gives each his due, and encourages the diligent, then the effect of that does not go to waste. When he leaves his position, he will find that people still remember him with kindness and continue to appreciate him, because they were not attached only to his position, but to his humanity, morals, and good treatment.
One of the most beautiful things an official can receive after retirement is to become missed, not only in the physical sense, but in the sense that people feel a void he left behind. They talk about his justice when justice is mentioned, about his humility when humility is recalled, and about his support and motivation when leadership is discussed. This kind of presence is not created by systems or decisions, but by ethics that manifest in everyday situations.
People do not forget those who respect their humanity and treat them well. That is why some officials leave their positions but remain in hearts for many years, because they realized that management is not an exercise of power so much as an exercise of responsibility.
On the other hand, there are those who believe that constant severity is strength, that aloofness is reverence, and that arrogance elevates one's status. So they deal with people coldly, close the doors of communication, pressure employees, and greet visitors with a frown. They may think that everyone surrounds them, but in reality, they are dealing only with their official position.
When the day of retirement comes, this image quickly dissipates. He discovers that many of the relationships that surrounded him were tied to the position, not the person. He finds that calls decrease, visits decline, and social presence shrinks, because people did not find in their experience with him any reason to maintain closeness or preserve affection. He lives in isolation that could have been avoided had he built bridges with others.
This does not mean that the official should seek to win people's love through flattery or concessions, but rather to perform his work with fair firmness and respectful discipline. People may differ over decisions, but they rarely differ in their appreciation of a polite, just, and humble person. Firmness becomes stronger when coupled with good character.
Yes, retirement is a truthful mirror of all the years of work. What an official finds in terms of appreciation or lack thereof after leaving his post is mostly the fruit of what he planted during his professional journey. Whoever treats people well finds kindness, whoever preserves their dignity sees his own dignity preserved, and whoever gives them appreciation receives their loyalty. Thus, after retirement, a person remains surrounded by people's love or far from them, not because of the position he once held, but because of the way he lived that position and dealt with people. A good reputation and dignified conduct are the inexhaustible capital, the true legacy that remains when everything else departs.
And the final word: You will carry with you from your office many files when you retire, O official, but you will not carry anything more precious than a good reputation built over the days. Therefore, when you sit on your position's chair, plant respect before demanding it, listen more than you speak, be fair before being firm, offer appreciation before giving direction, open your door before opening your office, be humble as your status rises, and remember that hearts do not remember powers but remember stances. Retirement is the end of the position, but it is the beginning of reaping your reputation.
Original source: Al-Riyadh
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