The Door That Was Not Opened!
A student with an average exceeding 90% stood before the admissions screen. His first choices were turning red, one after another. He did everything he could, directing his ambition toward one door, only to discover that door did not open for him.
At that moment, the student loses a seat, and along with it, thinks he has lost his entire future. Here begins the real question: Was his opportunity closed off, or was just one of its doors closed?
This scene repeats every year, revealing a deeper question than 'What is the best major?' It is: Who has the right to define success? It is attributed to Imam Malik - may God have mercy on him - saying: 'Just as God divided provisions, He also divided works.' This meaning aligns with the ways of life; life is based on the integration of works, diversity of roles, and mutual need among people. When the door that the student wished for does not open, many discover that they tied success to a single door, while God made life have many doors, and each door has its people. Society is not sustained by a doctor alone, nor by an engineer alone, nor by an accountant alone, nor by a teacher alone; rather, it flourishes when each one masters their position and performs their role with excellence.
Nevertheless, it cannot be ignored that the system itself sends signals driving many families to favor certain specializations; starting salary, promotion speed, and social status are all factors influencing the decision. These are real signals, but they do not determine the outcome. Admission opens the first door, but mastery is what keeps doors open, no matter how the job market changes.
That is why I always tell my students: 'I graduated from my mother's university, with my father's specialization... but just be understanding.' I know the phrase is colloquial, but it summarized what dozens of lectures could not. The university gives you an opportunity, the specialization opens a door for you, but understanding is what keeps that door open and builds your standing after you enter.
How many a graduate of a prestigious university had his university's name precede him into a gathering, only for people to turn away from him after minutes. And how many a graduate of a local university no one knew, but when he spoke, everyone listened.
The name precedes you once, but understanding accompanies you all the way.
What happens in universities is repeated within institutions; every department sees itself as the most important, until the first crisis comes, and the institution discovers that its success was not dependent on one department, but on the integration of all.
True distinction among people begins after each one crosses his own door, not at the admissions gate.
Therefore, if a parent asks me: 'What is the best specialization for my son?' I will not mention a specialization name, but rather say: Look for him the door through which he can attain the level of excellence. The door he wished for may not open for him, but he may find in another door a greater impact and a more lasting message.
This is the bet on which successful nations build their future; that every person knows their position, masters their work, and assumes their responsibility. This aligns with Saudi Vision 2030 in building human capital measured by mastery and impact, not by the number of degrees alone. Seats are granted by systems, but status is granted only by mastery.
The door you wished for may not open, but that does not mean your future is closed. God divided provisions, and divided works, and left the door of excellence open to all.
Original source: Al-Madina
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